Do You Know All About Fetishes

When you look past the world of "classic sex" there is a whole other world of fetishes. Fetishes are defined as an obsession with a specific act or feeling that generates arousal. These come in many forms. Some are basic like fetishes about feet or hands, while others involve intense role-playing. These are the most secretive types of fetishes. They involve bondage, domination and/or nurturing by one person to the person who has the fetish.

Bondage is one of the most active types of fetishes. Many couples enjoy light bondage in their home during sex. This involves tying one or both hands and/or feet to a bed post or blind folding a person. The idea behind bondage is that one person is in partial or total control of the other. There is a deep amount of arousal with having all the control or having lack of control. Some people are able to play both the submissive and dominate roles while others only experience arousal with one role or the other. There are other people who enjoy being fully tied-up, gagged and possibly even tortured. While the fetish world is most often portrayed as men being dominated by female mistresses, there are also women who enjoy this particular fetish.

Domination fetishes involve two-roles and may incorporate other fetishes. Acts of bondage are considered domination; however role-playing may be done with teacher/student, parent/child or boss/employee scenarios. Usually during these sessions the "servant" will perform whatever "duties" are instructed to them. There is usually an "incentive" included such as spanking, gagging or other forms of light torture. Couple may perform fetish scenarios at home, but most reach out to fetish dungeons to have their arousal needs satisfied. Fetish domains can be found online and their location is disclosed to the client when an appointment is confirmed. There is no sex involved when a person chooses to visit one of these facilities; the acts are strictly for arousal purposes. Some also specialize in certain types of mistresses - Asian, plus size, etc - and offer unique styles of torture - electrical current, mummification, etc.

Nurturing fetishes are drastically different from bondage and domination fetishes. Usually these are centralized around the through or idea of reconnecting with an estranged parent or lover. Some of these involve one person as a "horse" or other animal while the partner. Another common nurturing fetish involves one person acting as a parent to another person who wears diapers, simulates breast-feeding and is taken care of.

Enjoying a type of fetish does not make a person "weird" or some sort of "freak". If anything, it identifies those individuals that are comfortable enough with their sexuality and what turns them on to embrace a different kind of sexual stimulation.