One of the things the two of you did when you first met and started dating was to flirt with one another. You were able to convey your intentions in a playful and romantic way through your flirting with each other.Now that you are married, don't stop flirting with your spouse. Both of you need to continue to be fluent flirters!
Why You Should Flirt With Your Spouse
Flirting is a way to be playful with your spouse.
Flirting can be an ego booster for both you and your spouse.
Flirting with each other helps keep your marriage alive.
Flirting is a positive way to communicate your love to each other.
Flirting is a way to remind one another that you are still attracted to each other.
It is good for your children and grandchildren to notice your love for one another.
Flirting with your spouse is fun and natural.
How to Flirt With Your Spouse
You should already know how to flirt with your spouse. But just in case you forgot, here are a few tips.
Flirting should be spontaneous. Don't flirt at the same time everyday.
Look into your spouse's eyes. You have to make eye contact to flirt.
Coy looks, a glance, a wink, a smile, a pat on your spouse's rear, lowering your eyes, an arched eyebrow -- these all say you are still interested in your spouse.
You can toss your head slightly, squeeze your spouse's hand or knee, place your hand in a light touch on your mate's shoulder or back, give a hug.
The tone of your voice, leaning toward your spouse when giving a compliment, or a peck on your spouse's neck can show you care.
You know what your "come-and-get-me stance" looks like. Give your spouse that look at an unpredictable time.
Other flirting cues are whispering, fidgeting with earrings, necklace, necktie, change in your pocket, sitting close together, shyly looking away, leaving a love note for your spouse to find.
Other flirting cues are whispering, fidgeting with earrings, necklace, necktie, change in your pocket, sitting close together, shyly looking away, leaving a love note for your spouse to find.
Flirting With Others Could Cause Problems in Your Marriage
You should be aware that flirting with someone other than your spouse can create jealousy problems in your marriage. The special gestures, glances, and expressions that make up your flirting technique should be reserved for your spouse.
Flirting with other people is playing with fire. It can undermine your marriage, make your spouse feel unappreciated, could show a lack of respect for your spouse and your marriage, and might be offensive not only to your spouse but to the person you are flirting with. Responding with comments about how you were "just joking" or "playing around" or "it doesn't mean anything" or "it's just harmless teasing" probably won't lessen your spouse's sense of being offended.
Flirting with other people is playing with fire. It can undermine your marriage, make your spouse feel unappreciated, could show a lack of respect for your spouse and your marriage, and might be offensive not only to your spouse but to the person you are flirting with. Responding with comments about how you were "just joking" or "playing around" or "it doesn't mean anything" or "it's just harmless teasing" probably won't lessen your spouse's sense of being offended.
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